Tuesday, April 21, 2015

A Temporary Move

Hey there!  If you've been following you've noticed I haven't posted in a while.  

Check out the new location of all things Fitness in Reality at


under the drop-down menu heading "Fitness in Reality", obviously.

The Instagram feed @fitnessinreality is still going strong.

I'm still posting inspiring and informational content plus workouts, but I needed it to mesh more seamlessly into my life in general, so this is the solution!  We'll be back, but don't lose touch!

Thanks for following!

Monday, March 9, 2015

My Workout Playlist

Many people run for the solitude and time to think. I spend the better part of each day listening to crickets and my own zany and scattered thoughts...For me exercise is a time to stop thinking and let go. Stop scaring myself.  Or talking to myself.

My playlist reads like a sampling buffet, from Weezer to T.I. to T Swift and everything in between.

I prefer mindless lyrics and a beat that shakes my bones.  I also like it loud, but unless I'm indoors, I keep it down so I can hear the goings-on of the traffic around me.  Safety first.

I just let the beat wash over me, and put all my deeper thoughts and problems on the back burner while I enjoy a good sweat sesh.

Remember to download only "clean" or "radio edit" versions, because nothing stops you in your tracks like a well-placed expletive. Amazon.com offers radio edits for most popular songs.

Here's a selection of my current favorites:


"Boom Clap" by Charlie XCX
"Make It Bun Dem" by Damian Marley & Skrillex
"Fancy" by Iggy Azalea feat. Charlie XCX
"Sure Shot" by The Beastie Boys
"Team" by Lorde
"The Walker" by Fitz & The Tantrums
"That's Not My Name" by The Ting Tings
"UpTown Funk" by Mark Ronson feat. Bruno Mars
"The Geeks Were Right" by The Faint

And here's a little video link to brighten your day, when this one comes on I keep hitting repeat.  I'm gonna go practice my dance moves 'til I'm smoother than a fresh jar of Skippy - ow!



Ski Boot Camp Workout #9 - Legs, Shoulders, Core

We are on Week 8 of Ski Boot Camp already!  Only 3 workouts left!! (this being one of them)

I hope you are feeling stronger and more fit!  
Are your lungs burning? Are your legs on fire? 
Good!  I'm doing my job.

Here's the workout, targeting legs, shoulders, and more core.  
Don't forget stretching and cardio. 


Alternating Step-back Lunges, with weights

Alternating Plank Row, with weights

Drop Squats
spend more time low, and pop up & down quickly

Prone Leg-Swings 
straight leg, swing fast!

Lunge w/Shoulder Raise, with weights

Plank 2-footed Side Hops
hop up to your right hand, back to plank, then up to left hand

GO!

Thursday, March 5, 2015

Throw-back-Thursday: First Triathlon


Let's go back...way back.  2005 was my first triathlon, a family reunion activity that my parents arranged for us.  It came at a time that I really needed to focus on my physical & mental well-being, having three kids under the age of 5.  

We trained and took turns watching the kids.  It was a very symbiotic time.  He really sacrificed for me and it deepened our roots.


 My husband, sister, my dad, &  my temporarily crippled brother & I all competed.  It was so much fun.  I love the picture with my dad running out in front, with my brother filming, and my sister running with my baby, because it shows so well the support my family is & always has been for each other.


And with this cutie-pie cheering section, we were pumped all the way.

I finished loving every mile, and wishing I'd signed up for the longer Olympic distance.  I knew I'd be back someday.  My competitive streak runs deep.

I have not run a race since, and I have biked only one non-competitive event.  But this kick-started my love of biking and my need for time to recapture my sanity each day.  There's a time and season for everything, and I have been patiently waiting and watching for when the time is right.  It's getting close, and I'm getting really excited about turning 40.  I'm feeling a half- or full-ironman in my future.

Surround yourself with people who support you, encourage your efforts, celebrate you, and help you fulfill your dreams.  And do the same for someone else.  Together, nothing can stop you.

Cheer someone on today!

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Rest Day Reality

Typically my rest days are Sundays.  It's a natural break point for me, being Sunday and all.  But lately I've been resting like 2-3 days a week.

I've had a lot going on, with a surgery in the family, a weekend with the youth, appointments, and the craziness that is having teenage daughters with lives, social calendars, and bedtimes of their own.  Most of the time I use exercise as time for me.  It peps me up, helps me feel good about myself with all the natural endorphins circulating.  But sometimes I question whether or not I have actually got the time.

The ironing is piled to the ceiling, the bathrooms need cleaning, the cars need oil, taxes need filing, I can't even wade through the disaster that is the storage side of my basement, my day is half-way gone before I realize it, and I find myself hacking activities that don't help accomplish these things, or sitting in front of the computer willing it all to go away.  You are familiar with this? I thought so.

There's also this:


And the lesson ends up being that no matter how much time I think I'll save by skipping a work out, it ends up being the thing I'm most disappointed about from the entire day.  It's the biggest thing on my list that didn't get done.  It's the thing that drives me the most mad when the kids are home and I've missed my window, makes me the most disappointed in myself, and turns me into the Hulk that just wishes everyone would just go to bed already.

I know I Instagrammed that I just couldn't do it today, but I think I've talked myself down from that ledge.  I'm going to go work off some cake.

Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Practice Yoga at Home - Your Body Will Thank You



I know I already tol' ya about my love of yoga, but I'm just going to waggle it in front of your nose again.

Yoga is awesome.  And you don't have to join a gym or a studio, or fumble around trying to make stuff up as you go.  If you're like me you can think of about 3 stretching moves.  I need guidance.  And the cheaper the better.

My favorite way to do yoga is at home, using Yoga Studio App, info here. It is $5 and has unlimited classes in varied lengths, focuses, & intensities.  The Runners Stretch classes are the bomb after a run or bike.

I also occasionally enjoy a $5 class at my local gym.  Yes, I will go into a gym for classes, but that's it.  I like it because they crank up the heat in the room and it is so warm and cozy, my muscles just melt like butter on a hot pancake, or like warm taffy, or a melty chocolate chip in a warm cookie...what was I talking about?  Oh yeah, warm yoga.  Bliss.

My sister sent me this great article from Huffington Post, 9 Great Yoga YouTube Channels.

The only one I have experience with is the Tara Styles channel and I really really love her classes.  She has a really casual approach, making yoga something everyone can do, even if your pose is not perfect.  It's a more organic feel, with movement, rocking, loosening, and flow.  And her voice is really soothing.

I believe that Yoga is an essential part of fitness.  Repetitive movements from the exercises we favor create muscles that are reluctant to stretch and move in other ways.  This applies to body builders, runners, bikers, HIITers, cross-fitters, swimmers, & triathletes.  Even basketball, football, etc.  Yoga also improves balance, coordination, & overall strength.  For our Summer Slim Down challenge, do a few minutes of Yoga after your 60 minutes of cardio.

Having long and limber muscles & tendons helps prevent injury by making our bodies resilient.  So when you slip on ice, arms and legs flailing wildly to keep your balance, you don't end up with a pulled hammy, or torqued back.  Think nimble, like a cat.

Yoga also relieves the tension that we carry in our muscles, that create pains in our backs, necks, shoulders, hips, etc.  Women particularly carry their stress in their hips in the form of tightness.  My favorite pose for hips is "Shoelace".  It's magic.


One of my goals for this year is to do Monkey. The splits, in layman's terms, but Monkey just sounds so darn yogi-ish and non-gymnasticky (yay for made up words).  Unfortunately I come from a long line of inflexible ancestors.  That's why it's a long-term goal.




Some argue that yoga isn't really a workout, but I can attest to the fact that if you put all your effort into it, keep your muscles engaged, and breathe, you will be sweating and muscles quivering by the time you're done with a 30-60 minute sesh.  Especially if you are in a hot room.  But keep in mind that not everything that is beneficial for your body requires sweating.  Isn't that refreshing?

Shed some tension today!


Monday, March 2, 2015

Ski Boot Camp Workout #8 - Abs & Arms


30 seconds each - Repeat 3 times
Difficulty Suggestions:
Abs exercises on your back are harder if you put your hands behind your head a raise your head
Easier on your lower back if you put your hands under you palms down under your booty.

Plank is harder if you keep your hands directly below your shoulders and your hips down.
Easier, see video :)

Muscle trembling or shaking is good.  It means you are working those abs, so keep going!

Plank Jump In
Flutter Kick
Plank Jack
Reverse Crunch
Plank Arm Leg Raise
Kick Downs

GO!

Ski Boot Camp Workout #7 - 100s Week!


There are a few ways you can do this week:

1. Do one of the 100's each day for 5 days
2.  Do 50 of each every day
3. Do 100 of each every day

It all depends on what you want to get out of this whole workout thing!
You'll only get results that mirror your effort.

awesome effort = awesome results


Ski Boot Camp Workout #4 - Leg & Core Strength


30 seconds each - 3 times through

Single Leg Clock Squats
Burpee - Knee - Push Up
Sumo Squat with Overhead Press
Deadlift Row
Walkouts
Kick Downs

GO!

Friday, February 27, 2015

Pants That Won't Fall Down. And Other Stuff.


Here's my must-haves for working out, and for outdoor winter fitness:

1.  Under Armour Protegee front zip bra.  The best sports bra hands down.  I get asked about this one all the time.  If you have a problem with jiggle, this will solve it.  Consider buying a size smaller to keep things really buttoned-down. Find it in-store at Smith's Marketplace.

2.  Asics stability running shoe.  I'm not a fan of minimalist footwear. With my high arch and pronation I need more.  Lots of styles & colors.

3.  The Old Navy Active Compression Capri or Pant.  The other item I get asked about frequently.  They do not fall down.  Again, think about getting a size smaller than you would normally buy.  Compression.  The fabric breathes, and they fit in my budget.

4.  SuperFeet Green athletic inserts.  My feet are a problem, and these babies inside my Asics are a dream.

5.  Under Armour Neon No-Show socks. They do not slip down the back of your heel.  Sweet.

6.  Down Front athletic jacket, like this one at Old Navy.  Keeps my core toasty but lets my arms vent.

7.  Sunglasses.  Something light and cheap, because we all know what happens to sunglasses.  I like to not be able to make eye contact while I'm suffering.

8.  A beanie to keep my ears warm.  Don't get an ear ache.

9.  Old Navy Active Mesh top.  Light, breathable, and no sweat pits. Comes in lots of colors, and again, is budget friendly.

There you have it. Get sweaty today!


Monday, February 23, 2015

A girl walks into a gym...

No it's not the beginning of a bad joke, more like the end.


I. am. not. a. gym. rat.  I have been feeling, however, that I have the legs of a power lifter and the upper body of a 12-year-old girl.  No offence.  And my home "gym" set up does not allow for much upper body work beyond calisthenics.

So I went to my local place-of-fitness and signed up for a free week trial, and proceeded to the sunless, sweaty, beefy, and strange world of the gym.

It was a mixed bag: gray hairs and akwardly brown young people.  Newbies and career lifters.  And a funny girl in neon tights and top wearing glasses.  I also found myself thinking: what self-respecting man is at the gym at 10:30 am?  As I said, the gym scene is an enigma to me.

I started on the elliptical, for some warm-up cardio that is gentle on my joints.  I could barely handle 10 minutes.  So boring.  There was a news channel on my machine >snore< and a movie playing, neither of which I could hear.  I was pretty warm, so I proceeded to inspect all the machinery.  I settled on arms, since that's what I can't do at home, and did 3 sets of 10 of several different exercises.  Then I moved on to legs because I was getting the hang of it.  I couldn't shake the feeling that I was being watched.  By who, I can't imagine, because all those mirrors of truth, well, they don't lie.

Then I made up some upper-body exercises that are water-ski specific because, you know, it's snow ski season, we're in the midst of Ski Boot Camp, and I have ADHD like that.  It was pretty fun, to be honest.

At the hour mark I couldn't think of anything else to do besides make one attempt at a pull up which I didn't repeat because it was super embarassing.  Which brings me full circle to why I went in the first place.  Upper body.  For real.

I have a week.  Is it possible I may become converted?  

Enjoy 100's Week, posted on Instagram @fitnessinreality.  Please don't hate me!

Saturday, February 21, 2015

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone



Long run for me today.  I went 1 mile longer than last week, which is good.  The first 3 miles are just plain uncomfortable for me.  It's the warm up period; everyone has one.  It's wise to take advantage of it and work it into your overall time.

At mile 3.2 my lungs and chest opened up, my legs were loose, my stride longer.  Nirvana.

So I got thinking.  One of three things is happening:

1.  I'm now running downhill
2.  I'm running with the prevailing wind
3.  I'm a distance machine

I was going with distance machine, because in truth, that's what I am.  I'm not fast but I can go forever.

Just not in running right now.  Because at mile 5.2 I blew up in a puff of smoke when my IT band tightened up and I decided that it was time to walk.

Try pushing past your discomfort and see what you are capable of, be it running, HIITs, more repetitions of the weekly workouts, cycling, anything.  You will surprise yourself at what you can do!



If your lungs and muscles are screaming, that's a good thing, and if you push through that you will be stronger and fitter.  If you are mechanically hurting, don't push through it.  You don't want injury to your tendons, ligaments, bones, etc.  Stretching will help as it increases your flexibility.  And taking it slow will let your body get stronger over time.

Toning and weight-bearing exercise helps strengthen lateral-movement muscles that don't get strong or used much in running.  Women are particularly prone to injuries that come from lateral movement because we tend to  focus on forward-moving exercise, and shy away from muscle-building exercise (which is a huge no-no).   If you do the weekly workouts on Instagram @fitnessinreality, you won't be missing any of your key muscle groups.

Push yourself!  And enjoy your Saturday!

Friday, February 20, 2015

Compressions socks, the good and the bad



I ran in compression socks yesterday, on that very uncomfortable run.  I realize that it wasn't a totally fair trial, but despite how my gut felt, my legs felt great!

Compression sock are supposed to speed up the blood circulation in your lower legs which helps fight fatigue and also aids in recovery.

These are the socks I chose from backcountry.com, pretty much because they were cheap, but also because backcountry.com brand provides great quality for the price.  I chose size small (they're basically unisex) and I wear a women's 8.5-9 shoe.

Backcountry Knee-High Compression Socks

I opened the package and thought "gosh, these look tiny" but sure nuf they pulled on.  Tip: you aren't supposed to gather them up like panty-hose when you put them on, but slide them up. This preserves their uniform compression.  Not sure how you're supposed to accomplish that.

I can report that my legs felt pretty good running. I wore them for about an hour after my run, and I do believe that my legs feel a little less tired this morning.  I will test them further.

And sometimes we need an image that sears itself into our brains, when you look at it and say "ok, things have gotten out of hand".  This was mine:




Good: made my legs feel good during and after my run
Bad: compression sock muffin top

Do some fun cardio today! And never underestimate the power of a good dose of reality!

Thursday, February 19, 2015

Running on a full stomach...and never say never

Today I put off exercise until after lunch, after driving into SLC to pick up some compression socks.  More on that later.  So I ate some crab/pepper salad, low fat, high protein, great food.  Waited an hour, and went running.

  

It wasn't pretty.  My limbs felt like lead, I was running hunched over like a granny, my stride was short and stunted, eyes staring at the ground.  I didn't hurl, but it was close.  I knew this would happen.  I should have remembered.  I do better on a fasting run, either before I have breakfast or at least two hours after I last ate/drank. Be smarter than me & follow your body's rules.


The song that got me through was "Black Widow" by Iggy Azalea.  Radio edit, of course.  Nothing speaks to my running-soul like a heavy beat.



I also got up this morning with really fantastic intentions.  Sometimes (today) I say "I'm not eating a speck of sugar or a piece of bread all day".  Yay me & self-control.  And inevitably, this happens:


The sweetest gift from my hubby's co-workers after his disc replacement surgery last week, along with a giant fruit bouquet.  Why should I say no? An occasional dose of "thank you very much" works wonders for your mind and body.  

Don't reach for the already-open-six-month-old bag of generic chocolate chips just because it's 3 pm.  Wait for it. Save up.  For when it's a surprise.  For when it's going to be good.  And totally worth every calorie,  Like these chocolate dipped fruits.  My body and mind are saying thank you in at least seven different languages, instead of cursing the gut-ache that comes from low-quality unsatisfying sugar leavings.

#sugarfreefebruary is an experiment, to let you know how you feel when you've got syrup in your veins versus when you don't.  Trust me, you'll feel better with less.  But not none. 

What's the take-away?  Strengthen your body every day.  Don't waste calories on processed, white, sugary junk.  And when it's special, go for it.  Your healthy body can handle it.

And don't run after eating crab salad.  Blerg.

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Adventures with Kids

Sometimes fitness is about alone time.  I cherish it as much as the next mom.  But some of my most enjoyable "exercising" has been with my kids.

I have three daughters, ages 10, 12 and 14.  They are strong, smart, funny, bossy, fashion-conscious, sensitive, sweet, kind, and like all kids, sometimes l-a-z-y.


So I do what I can to get them outside on those days when they don't have school and have absolutely no reason to put down Netflix and look out the window.

If I can get past the whining and complaining about why on earth do they have to get up and do anything on their "day off", we end up having a stellar time soaking in the beauty of the outdoors, or sometimes indoors.

Fitness is not always about lifting weights, counting miles, counting heartbeats, or obligation. Fitness can be fun, spontaneous, and a way to experience the world around you.  All while connecting with the people you love most.

One of the easiest things to do where we live is to go hiking.  We are minutes away from the mountains and a myriad of trails.  There is plenty to keep kids interested and engaged and exploring.  Sometimes we hike to a goal like an outcropping or waterfall, sometimes we just wander.  We always feel restored and reconnected after getting outside together.








Sometimes the weather isn't very cooperative, or we are hankering after something a little different.  One of our other favorite activities is to go indoor rock-climbing.  There are several gyms near us, as I'm sure there are near you.  Challenging climbing routes are endless, colored holds provide direction and goals, rather than just scurrying up randomly.  Belaying, rappelling, bouldering, and crack climbing teach valuable skills in reliability, safety, team work, stretching your limits, and learning new things.











In our family, rock-climbing is a three-generation activity.  My kids and I eagerly look forward to going climbing with Grandma & Grandpa!  How many kids can say that?  I really want to be that kind of grandma, the kind my own mom & grandma have shown me how to be: involved, active, ready to try new things, enjoy spending time with kids & grand-kids, and to challenge the stereotype at every turn.



My reality has shown me that fitness comes in a vast array of forms, and continues throughout a full and active life.  What better way to teach your kids that than to bring them along on your adventures?

Enjoy those kids, you won't be attached at the hip forever!

Monday, February 16, 2015

Ski Boot Camp Workout #6 - Legs Legs & More Legs



3-Way Lunge - 4 each leg
(keeping one leg planted with knee straight, lunge out to the side & back, at a 45 deg angle & back, then straight forward & back. that's one. now repeat on the other side)

Squat High Kicks - 10 each leg
(feet together step one leg out to a wide squat. step same foot back in, then do a high kick with the other leg. repeat)

Lunge with Rotation - 10 each leg
(stand in wide stance.  keep one let planted with knee straight. lunge deeply and touch outside of foot, then stand and rotate up to opposite side. repeat.  I like to think of this as picking up something off the floor and placing it on a high shelf.  that's the movement.)

Curtsy Lunge - 10 each leg
(stand feet together. step one leg back and to the outside of squatting leg, just like a lady's curtsy. lunge deeply keeping your knee and ankle aligned at 90 deg. alternate legs or do 10 on the same leg and then switch)

Basketball Lunge with Overhead Press - 10 each leg
(lunge back, pass weight under front bent leg from inside to outside.  Press weight up overhead and bring the back leg from the lunge up in front and raise it.)

4-Point Jump Lunge - 4 full circles each leg
(get in low lunge. jump around in a circle at the four points of a compass. stay low. when you get to front again switch legs and jump around in the opposite direction)

Repeat! 

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Breakfast & Do We Have to Make a Box?

I LOVE breakfast.  Who's with me?  Probably my most vital & favorite meal of the day.  I cook hot breakfast for my family every morning.  Whether they eat it or not...they're alien like that.

What I really love is a carb-loaded breakfast.  No egg-whites & spinach for me, thanks.  I'm starting in on the most active part of my day: getting kids off to school, packing lunches, working out, starting laundry, cleaning house.  And I need yummy, lasting fuel, and I need to feel full.

Pancakes are my favorite.  And variety is my MO (not Missouri, modus operandi): coconut, pumpkin, spice, banana, buttermilk, whole wheat, zucchini, red velvet, lemon poppyseed, cinnamon, and the list goes on.

Whole grain pancakes are what I grew up on. Dad would grind wheat on the back porch and mix up a batch of "Oh Boy Pancakes" or waffles.  I recently found a 10 Grain mix in the bulk-bins at my local Smith's.  It's got oat, corn, rye, whole wheat, millet, barley, rice, soy, triticale, & flaxseed.   Just add your choice of milk, oil, and and egg or two.  It is nutty deliciousness. You could also try Kodiak Cakes boxed mix.




This is how they turned out. Mouth watering.  These I topped with vanilla greek yogurt & bananas with a drizzle of real maple syrup.  It's a point of contention in our house about what goes on pancakes, and there's a lot of topping-discrimination & outright insulting that goes on.  Syrup & butter are respectable, but where's the fun in that?  If you put ketchup on eggs, you have no right to judge.


I grew up in a home with a Type 1 Diabetic father.  He is amazing and inspiring to me by living a full, healthy, active lifestyle while being insulin dependent.  So as a kid my mom got creative.  I love hot homemade sugar-free applesauce & peanut butter, peanut butter & syrup, hot applesauce & sour cream, fruit & powdered sugar & sour cream, berry compote, greek yogurt & berries, any nut butter, and any and all combinations of the above.  I also love a "leaky egg" squished in the midst of my pancake stack.  New ideas?  Send them my way.

As I get older I recognize that my body is behaving differently toward simple carbs.  So some mornings I want a pancake but also recognize that I need a flour break.  So I looked into protein pancakes, and here are my favorites.

This one is the "Dukan Pancake": 2 eggs, 2 Tbsp oat bran, 1 Tbsp greek yogurt, dash cinnamon, 1/4 tsp vanilla, dash salt, because who wants a flavorless sponge?  Mix together and pour onto griddle or frying pan brushed with coconut oil or butter spray.  Top with healthy fruit, yogurt, nut butter, and a splash of real maple syrup.  This way I get my protein and my pancake too.


The other recipe I like is a "Banana Protein Pancake": 2 eggs, 1 whole banana, vanilla, cinnamon, salt, dash of baking powder.  Same process.  This one is tough for me because it gets black fast. I think because I use too ripe a banana, and the natural sugars scorch.  

Don't forget to fuel your morning.  You're more likely to get up and exercise when you feel like you're running on a full tank of high-octane fuel, not sluggish on a bowl of air+sugar.

My last child only has two more school Valentine's Days parties left in her career.  Praise be.  I don't know if it's because she's the youngest & I'm getting soft, but the older girls are going to have a fit when they see what I got for her to pass out.  Valentine's boxes are the bane of my February existence.  I can't talk her into a decorated brown bag.  I see a monster or a space shuttle on the horizon. Or worse, another pink refrigerator.  The things we do for love.

Eat yummy!

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Exercise Saves Me

I'm a cyclist at heart. I've been riding bikes for transportation since I was 14; I married a cyclist, but really fell in love with the sport 5 years ago.  My kids were all in full-day school and I gleefully rode for 1+ hours every day.  Freedom at last!

I recognized that I had hit a plateau when season after season I felt the same tiredness in my legs, I was riding at the same speeds, never really improving.  I decided I needed some motivation so I entered the lottery for Little Red Riding Hood Century: 100 miles.  I'd been wanting to for years but for some reason hadn't ever entered an event.

Of course, being the most unlucky person I know, I didn't get into the event.  I was pretty crushed.  At this same time we started on a major health crisis in our home and it took all my energy and mental focus just to keep me & the family going.  About two months in I was starting to feel like I was going to blow, desperately needing a physical & mental outlet, and ruing the fact that I didn't have Little Red to look forward to.

Right when I was feeling my most low, my great friend told me she had found me an entry, and I was in!  You know how it feels when finally things align for your good, & provide you with the exact thing you need to get through a challenge?  This was it.  The heavens had opened and clearly told me it was going to be okay, and that my prayers get answered.

I began training that day.  I hadn't exercised for about 4 months, one of the longest sedentary periods of my life.  Boy, was I feeling it.  I left the hospital that day and went for a run, letting all my frustration, anger, sadness, doubt, impatience, and stress pound out through my feet as I left it behind on the pavement.  It was a glorious sunny day and it restored my hope that thing would get better.

The health crisis didn't go away, and is still part of our lives today, a year later.  I took to the bike and training like a drowning woman reaching for the shore.  I made a training plan & stuck to it.  I went with my friend & training partner once a week, and she pushed me like crazy.  I felt improvement in my strength, endurance, and saw myself getting faster.  I went on long soul-restoring rides alone, for 4 and 5 hours, something I had never done before.

My family was supportive and encouraged me.  My husband helped refine my training and encouraged me to ride, but wanted to make sure I enjoyed it & didn't overdo it.  Which I did.  But my competitive nature got the best of me & I was not in it simply to finish, I was in it to race myself.  I talked to women about their previous times.  I took our average speed and estimated what it would be, and figured I'd be happy if we could finish in 6.5 - 7 hours of riding time. I rode over 1,000 miles in training for this event, with my Garmin tracking everything.


The day of the event was sunny & warm.  I felt amazing.  There were so many great women there, fun rest stops, and our two families were the greatest cheering section of the day!  We were the envy of every woman there!  We breezed through the 100 miles, meeting people, jumping from peloton to peloton drafting and taking turns leading.  It was a dream, really.  And our total riding time ended up being 5:45!  We averaged 17.5 mph which was about 2 mph faster than my highest estimate!  And best of all neither of us got a flat!



I gained so much confidence from training for and riding Little Red.  It was the perfect non-competitive event for women.  Being surrounded by hundreds of women of all different lives, ages, and backgrounds was inspiring and exciting.  Reaching my goal and exceeding my expectations was the icing on the cake.


Riding Little Red was the soul-saving thing I needed last March-June. I didn't ride very often the rest of the summer.  I got a spot for this year, but I'm kind of nervous about being as much in love with it this year as I was last year.  I still need saving as the stresses of chronic illness and unanswered questions still plague me and our family.  I have found solace and relief on my knees, and on my feet, still pounding out my frustration on the pavement and sweating through my doubt and anger and fear.


Little Red taught me that I have the responsibility to take my fitness goals into my own hands and make them happen.  It takes effort, sacrifice, time, and planning.  It takes a goal to inspire me.  This is the only way to make our dreams a reality.  We will always have support from our families & friends, but it takes one person to make your dreams happen.  You.

Let exercise be your therapy.

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Mmmmm....Meat!!

Nothing derails a high-protein plant-based diet than plopping a frozen bland chicken breast on the counter at 4:47.  Blerg.

Four weeks ago the hubby & I decided that we needed to start a more focused and healthy eating plan.  We don't eat unhealthily: I personally cook 90% of our meals, breakfast, home lunch & dinner for all 5 of us.  Every day.  We eat veggies and fruit, avoid meals in a box and frozen complete meals, and totally abstain from fatty, calorie-packed, single-dish casseroles or crock-pot meals.  Even then, we both know we have room to improve.  So I ran out and bought 10 lbs of chicken, practically the only affordable meat at this moment in time, but also fabulously lean & versatile, several heads of fresh broccoli, and zucchini.  And had it for four nights straight.  By the fifth night even I, as much as I love weird, bland, and repetitive food, had had enough.  Everyone was crying.

So I got creative, meaning I totally copied someone's recipes, and mixed it up a bit.  What? Shrimp? Only for the parents in this house, much to the kids' dismay.  But delicious with asparagus!  Pork?  Oh, right, the other white meat.  Duh!  How could I have forgotten?!  Salmon, cod, trout, & tilapia? More please! We avoid beef at our house, not only because of price, but because it puts some of our digestive systems into paralysis.  Armed with some internet recipes and some great clean-eating books (more on that later) I was ready again to tackle the new eating plan.

Two weeks of recipe-booking got me thinking outside the box and inside my own reality.  I have to buy what I can afford and what my family will willingly subject themselves to.  Pork in mandarin clove sauce?  Good idea but no one ate the sauce.  I hate waste.


So on my second week of intense food prepping I had an epiphany at hour 3 while sliding chicken breasts, pork, & turkey sausage into baggies for the freezer: why not add some marinade so it can have some flavor?  Genius!  So I rooted around my over-crowded refrigerator (which is inordinately full of sauces and condiments that I can't bear to throw away after using 1 tsp for some recipe) and got clever.  Teriyaki, soy sauce, bottled ginger, garlic, Italian salad dressing, Sweet Baby Ray's, lemon juice, olive oil, dijon mustard, fish sauce & oyster sauce made for some really interesting flavors that I am super excited to try!  Finally!  I stuck them in my freezer, which is also over-crowded, and the theory is that as they defrost they'll get yummy too!  Score 1 for the home team!

Now I might just be excited to pull out that bag of chicken at 4:47...

Remember that healthy eating takes small steps.  Get creative, get excited, get interested in your food and make it the perfect compliment to the exercising you're doing to improve your overall fitness.

Have a really yummy dinner!

Monday, February 9, 2015

Ski Boot Camp Workout #5 - Balance & Coordination


30 seconds each @ high intensity 
10 seconds rest
Repeat 3-4 times
(a great interval timer app is SIT. set it and forget it)

Step Back Lunge w/Shoulder Press
Plank Row
Hip Lifts w/Weight
Seal Squats
Kneeling Opposite Arm/Leg Extensions
Froggers
Side Plank Hip Lifts
Dead Lift w/Row
Jump Rope
Wide High Knees


GO!

Group Fitness. You Need It.

What a glorious weekend!  I couldn't stop exercising!  The Work-It Circuit was super fun, and I know a few of us can't sit down...anywhere.  I did my job!



What's a Work-It Circuit, you ask? It's a way to get together with friends to exercise, thus motivating yourself, setting a time, having a buddy, and holding yourself accountable.  Win!  Choose 10 exercises and make 10 stations.  Put weights near them or a yoga mat or whatever the exercise requires. Add music.  Loud music.  Then make a timer for 30 seconds on, 10 seconds rest, and do it four times through.  Done!  Be ready to laugh, giggle, pant, and push your way through the easiest workout sesh of your life.  

I'm going to hold some now and then, so watch my Instagram feed for details.  You'll be hooked!

Which leads me to today's topic: The Buddy System.  For most of my adult life I've been a solitary exerciser.  I do strength training & yoga in my sweet basement family room (which was built with exercise in mind), run on my own, & (sometimes) ride on my own.  I (very) occasionally ran with my husband, and as the kids finally went to school a full day we would ride once or twice per week.  This ride always started with him telling me to ride harder for the first 30 minutes, then with me cursing his name for the last 45 minutes.  Great bonding time.  And really, I'd rather go it alone, thanks.

In the past I always felt that exercise, uncomfortable breathing, and spitting were private things, best done at my own pace and on my own time.

I had a change of heart about group fitness when my sis-in-laws invited me to a Zumba class.  I rolled my eyes but then bit the bullet and went because I love an excuse to dance as much as the next girl.  And a night off from putting the kids to bed.  Win.  Hootin' and hollerin', laughing and getting confused to crazy loud Latin music with the girls ended up being the thing I looked forward to all week long.

When it came to cycling I just didn't know any other women who did, and to be honest I wasn't interested in riding with anyone.  I stepped outside my comfort zone and ended up finding the perfect riding partner.  We're both competitive, we push each other, and she's crazy fun. 




I now see group fitness as a restorative as well as a workout. We know women need each other for support, and incorporating this into our fitness helps us accomplish our goals and make strong connections at the same time.  The reality is that involving others is a guarantee of success.  

It's Monday, week 4 of Ski Boot Camp!!  Do the posted workout #FRsbc5 three times this week with your spouse, a friend, your mom, your sister, your kid, or alone!  Call a friend, join our Work-It Circuit, reach out & reach your goal!  And don't forget #sugarfreefebruary.  You can totally do it!

Make a fresh start!

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Make Time. It Won't Stop for You.

Let's be real. Going through your day thinking you're going to "fit in" a workout usually ends with it never happening.  Any role you are in right now comes with a plate-full of responsibilities clamoring for your attention, all day long.  Being a mom is probably the most demanding 24-hour job, while also being the most rewarding, by far.  Some of us have small children & infants.  Some have teenagers or young-adults.  Some have both, and I really really am in awe of that place.

No matter where you are in life, exercise is important.  Stop me if you've heard that before.  But I'm going to say it anyway, and tell you why.  

I believe exercise is for people who want to: 
live longer
be happier
be centered
meditate
be alone
be with friends
be with family
live an active lifestyle
play with your kids
increase your focus
be healthier
help others
set a good example
have active children & spouses

It's a winning thing to do for pretty much everyone.  As a mom, I'm going to go out on a limb and say it is an absolute must.  From personal experience I can tell you that no one benefits from a martyr-mom.  And the time you take for yourself will have long-term benefits for those people you live with and love.  Once I realized this, nothing could stop me.


So don't try to "fit in" your exercise.  Make time for it.  Set aside a certain hour, wake up before everyone, stay up late, sign up for a class, get a partner, do a babysitting swap, put the kids to bed, make a club, find new friends, whatever it takes to make sure you do one of the most important things you'll do all day: improve your physical & mental well-being.  

This is why I began this Instagram/Blogging project.  Because having a reminder & being told what to do makes it that much easier.  That leaves you with the only job of setting aside 30 minutes in the day.  Oh, and checking Instagram.




Don't get too stuck on what kind or how long.  Make it at least 30 minutes and make sure your heart is pumping hard and you are breathing faster than normal.  It will be hard at first, but stick with it.  It won't be long before you realize you love it, too.




Take time for yourself.  Your family will thank you for it.

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Food Food & More Food!




Food Prep Day!  This is my kitchen counter right now and I am so excited!  I'm not going to talk about how I had to sell my first born to get it, but hey, health is important right?  Oh yeah, and my jackpot find-of-the-day at Smith's?  Broccoli Rabe or Rapini!  I've been looking for this ever since I saw Giada using it, like, 3 years ago!  Ecstatic is too dull a word to describe how I felt when I saw it!  My life in the kitchen is now complete.  (Update: broccoli rabe/rapini is BITTER!  Bubble burst.  I am going to learn different ways to cook it.  More later.)

Obviously being my favorite subject, we're going to talk a little about food.  It plays a huge part in everyone's life. It takes time, it takes energy, it takes planning, it takes prep, it takes clean up, it takes chewing, it takes convincing & bribing accompanied by whining.  Huge.

But what role does it play in your overall physique?


We're not ALL after the beauty aspect of physique, but this is an important "info-graphic".  If you're interested in having a healthier heart, this is for you too.  Opinions differ on whether it's 70/20/10 or 70/10/20 or 80/10/10, but the point remains the same.  You are what you eat.  For real.  Realize that the big gun behind your change is going to come from the kitchen. Show off that new muscle from #skibootcamp by eating right.

It's important to know that what we eat does different things to our bodies.  

Simple carbs, or short-chain carbohydrates, like sugar, white bread, etc, are quickly turned to blood sugar and if not used, turn into fat stores.  That sit.  And multiply.  And cover up your six pack.  I know you have one.  Grrr.  

On the other hand, fruits & veggies (complex carbs or long-chain carbs) have fiber for longevity, fullness, & slower conversion to blood sugar, providing fuel at a more steady rate. This is why eating clean involves more of these healthy carbs.  Less conversion into fat stores.  More energy for your workout.  Yay!

Don't forget that frozen veggies are a super-duper alternative to fresh.  We use them frequently and there is a mad variety in the freezer section now-a-days.  They are a budget-friendly and delicious alternative to more expensive fresh, and are just as heart-healthy and lean.  I'm not going to delve into the merits of "real food" here.  Veggies are veggies as far as I'm concerned.

And just eat as much protein as you can handle.  It's how muscle rebuilds.




Nope, it'll never happen.  I spent all last spring biking 1,000 miles to prepare for a 100 mile event.  The event was  AWESOME and I felt super strong.  But I didn't lose 1 pound or 1 body fat percent.  Why?  Because I was eating simple carbs hand-over-fist.  What a wasted opportunity!  

Other benefits of eating fruits & veggies are better gastrointestinal health, more steady energy, elevated mood, and more results from that workout you're doing every day.  Win!

So bite the bullet & make the following changes:
  • Shop the outer edges of the grocery store where they put the healthy stuff.
  • Have healthy snacks at the ready.  Chop them up so you don't have to do it when you're hungry.
  • Prepare more veggies for dinner for the whole family.
  • Swap white bread, cereal & crackers for whole-wheat versions.
As in all things, slow and steady wins the race.  You've got a reality.  Fit more green stuff into your menu gradually and you'll be so glad you did it for your overall fitness.

Just to blow your mind, here's a list of complex carbohydrates.  Eat these any time!

All-bran cereals• Apples• Artichokes• Asparagus• Bagel• Baked beans• Bananas• Beans• Broccoli• Brown bread• Brown rice• Brussels Sprouts• Buckwheat• Buckwheat bread• Cabbage• Carrots• Cassava• Cauliflower• Celery• Chickpeas• Corn• Cornmeal• Cucumbers• Dill Pickles• Dried apricots• Eggplant• Garbanzo beans• Granary Bread• Grapefruits• High fiber breakfast cereals• Kidney beans• Lentils• Lettuce• Low fat yogurt• Macaroni• Corn• Muesli• Multi-grain bread• Navy beans• Oat bran bread• Oat bran cereal• Oatcakes• Oatmeal• Okra• Onions• Oranges• Other root vegetables• Pastas• Peas• Pinto beans• Pita bread• Plums• Porridge Oats• Potato• Prunes• Pumpernickel bread• Radishes• Ryvita crispbread• Shredded wheat• Skim milk• Soy milk• Soybeans• Spaghetti• Spinach• Split peas• Sprouts• Strawberries• Sweet potato• Tomatoes• Turnip Greens• Watercress• Whole Barley• Whole grain Cereals• Whole grain flours• Whole meal bread• Wholemeal spelt bread• Wild rice• Yam• Zucchini
Read more at Buzzle: http://www.buzzle.com/articles/complex-carbohydrates-list.html

Eat more veggies!

Monday, February 2, 2015

Hey There!

I love healthy food, exercising, being outside, being inside, fitness classes, & fitness challenges. I love to ride my bike.  I really love to feel strong, energetic, challenged, pushed, and accomplished.  I dream of doing an IronMan triathlon.  I dream of being a runner.  I love learning about healthy lifestyles, learning new exercises, and setting goals.  I like to comfortably do the activities that I enjoy, play with my kids not watch them play, and fearlessly embrace any new sport or activity that strikes my fancy.
This is what I call fitness.

I also have a life.  I have a husband & children.  I have gobs of extended family.  I have neighbors, friends, a church calling, school & extracurricular activities.  I get injured & sick. Also bored & uninspired.  I can't fit into 24 hours all the things I need or want to do.  I am a sugar-holic.  I love eating, food, & holidays.  Everything deserves celebrating with food.  
This is what I call reality.   

This is why I'm calling this little blog

You probably have many of the same goals & challenges that I do.  You don't always have two hours to commit to our cardio day.  You draw a blank when it comes to what exercise to even do.  You don't always have access to a wide range of free weights and weight machines.  You don't have personal trainers, unlimited grocery budgets, or kids (or spouses) who'll even eat what we cook.  Your tastebuds aren't dead, and you don't always eat clean.  You can't always afford a gym membership, & maybe you don't want to.  And you definitely don't wake up at 5 am.  However, we can do little things every day that add up to a habit, a commitment, a lifestyle, a change.  Sometimes all it takes is a little cheerleader (which is my specialty), a little direction, & a little reminder. It is totally possible to fit fitness into your reality.

I recently found an ancient three-ring binder in my cluttered basement filing cabinet filled with torn out workout pages from Shape, a homemade food journal, & a page with my fitness goals on it.  Funny.  Except.  My goals today are the same as those from 16 years ago.  And I still haven't reached them. Don't get me wrong, I don't have much to complain about.  Thanks to some stellar genetics (thanks mom & dad) I naturally hover at a relatively high fitness level & muscle mass, & have super-low cholesterol (thanks to my daily bacon&egg eating grandpa).

But there's no need to feel cozy and comfortable where I'm at if I've had the same goal for 16 years, and I still really want to reach it.  It just means I'm terrible at follow-through.  It has helped me realize a few things:

  • Quick diets will never do it.
  • I will never in a single day be able to exercise enough to burn the amount of junky simple carbs I ingest.
  • I recognize that my 38-year-old body burns calories differently than my 25-year-old body. (or even 30 or 35 for that matter)
  • Increasing the quality of the food I eat combined with exercise will help me reach my goals.
  • Inviting others along increases the likelihood that I will achieve my goals.
  • This is a long-term commitment.  Results will be gradual.
The main way this will be happening is via Instagram: @fitnessinreality.  Follow for workouts, tips, inspiration, clean eating, challenges, & sundry.  This blog will contain more in-depth information including recipes, physiology, nutrition, psychology, & my own little journey (in case you're interested).


SO.  Join me as I attempt to reach my long-cherished never-reached fitness goals, and make them my reality. It would make this whole thing that much sweeter if it helps you reach your goals, too!